Afraid of being a narcissist? Temper it with humility.

Being labeled a narcissist would rarely be considered a compliment. Narcissism is an inflated sense of self, extreme self-focus and self-importance. The word originates from Greek mythology where a young Narcissus fell in love with his own image. Think of a leader with high sense of entitlement, constantly craving for admiration, considering himself the best … Continue reading Afraid of being a narcissist? Temper it with humility.

Moonlight! – Precious moments captured from Mumbai nights

Deep in the night I woke up to a bright light shining on my face; My sleepy brain questioned, Oh! What’s the light, where’s it coming from? My eyes opened to a surreal vision! Can it be true? A beautiful full moon shining in the sky, smiling at me, smiling at the world! Spreading peace … Continue reading Moonlight! – Precious moments captured from Mumbai nights

Ekla cholo re – “If no one responds to your call, then dare to tread the path alone”

These are opening words of a song composed by Nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore. Last couple of years, I saw this song come alive right in front of my eyes. Here’s the story. There used to be more than 500 lakes in Hyderabad. Most are dead today, encroached by the ever-growing human population. I mutely witnessed … Continue reading Ekla cholo re – “If no one responds to your call, then dare to tread the path alone”

What stops us from listening – to everyone, all the time?

In the middle of a conversation, my team member said with frustration, “Padma, will you please allow me to complete. Please listen to me.” I said, “Go ahead”. While I thought, “why are you getting into unnecessary details, just come to the point.” I have also been at the receiving end. I remember working with … Continue reading What stops us from listening – to everyone, all the time?

Competency framework – are we using it blindly?

Several organizations use competency framework as an anchor for hiring, managing performance, developing and managing talent. Are we using it blindly? Indeed it’s a million dollar question, and by asking this, I am probably stirring up a hornets’ nest. Before going any further, let me acknowledge that I am not against competency framework. I have … Continue reading Competency framework – are we using it blindly?