‘People need people’ albeit to varying degrees. We have an innate need to form relationships. We want to be liked by others which in turn would help us form relationships, strengthen and sustain them. This need is a double-edged sword: if not channeled well, it has the potential to become a derailer, specifically at workplace. … Continue reading Understanding likeability at work
Steer your employees away from search firms
These months are probably the most dreaded period in corporate world – by managers and employees alike, albeit due to different reasons. Performance appraisals, ratings, normalization and the resulting increment and bonus are top of the mind issues. Some organizations also link this to promotion, which adds fuel to an already blazing fire! Several organizations … Continue reading Steer your employees away from search firms
When will we stop stereotyping women?
Few days back, I saw two billboards separated by couple of Kms on my way to work. Both are advertisements of one of the high end international schools in Hyderabad. The first billboard had a cute young girl baking cake with her mother in the kitchen. And it said, “It’s not about education, it’s about … Continue reading When will we stop stereotyping women?
Want to demonstrate actions that promote equality? Begin with your thoughts, not actions.
‘Equality’ is an oft discussed topic. But, how often do we practice it through our ‘feelings’, ‘thoughts’ and ‘actions’? I remember visiting the Pink Palace in Jaipur few years ago. We reached a staircase with no signage. We were not sure where it would lead to. I tried to check with a uniformed guard standing … Continue reading Want to demonstrate actions that promote equality? Begin with your thoughts, not actions.
My way or highway: it’s more common than we would like to believe
This leadership style is supposed to be archaic, with hardly any leader following it, especially if he / she nurtures a desire to be successful. It may be outdated, but by no means has it gone out of practice. I recollect an experience where I was requested by a leader to design a solution for … Continue reading My way or highway: it’s more common than we would like to believe
Innocent intruders? A short story
I was going to be with my husband Rajan after 4 months. I was so happy and excited. Chatting over skype is a good substitute, which we often did. But, it’s only a poor substitute!Five months back, the very day my daughter was born, Rajan got a new opportunity in his organization. He had been … Continue reading Innocent intruders? A short story
Negotiate the U curve of adaptation
My son went to a NCC camp (National Cadet Corps, a wing of armed forces) couple of months back. The camp was for 15 days. Imagine what 15 days – with friends and neither studies nor school - would mean to a 14 year old. He was very excited; so much so that he could … Continue reading Negotiate the U curve of adaptation
Why should I manage people?
My work regularly brings me in touch with managers from different functions. Couple of weeks back, I was chatting with the Production Head of a factory. After few minutes, our conversation turned towards the challenges he was facing with two people in his team. I could see the frustration on his face. Being an engineer, … Continue reading Why should I manage people?
Stop Avoiding the Most Powerful Question
Last week around this time, another year was coming to a close. All set to welcome the New Year, our hearts were filled with new hopes, dreams and aspirations. A colleague who also happens to be a good friend walked into my office. The conversation turned towards what we are currently doing, how meaningless it … Continue reading Stop Avoiding the Most Powerful Question
Tryst with a Dagger
I have always been fascinated by little towns, the tiny dots on the map of India. None of them can boast any major tourist attraction; rarely does a tourist visit them. But, I have always loved going to these small places. I invariably found some attraction in each town – an ancient temple with unique … Continue reading Tryst with a Dagger