Research indicates that we naturally tend to move towards similarity. Thus, it's easy to build relationships with people just like as. They help create a social world where we get to work with people who understand us, trust us and cooperate to meet our goals.However, we grow only by doing diverse things and building on different … Continue reading Flock with birds of different feathers
Category: Musings
Kill the hierarchy – flip the script
“I will check with my superior and let you know”, said Sid. By superior, he meant his manager.At times, team members are also referred to as ‘subordinates’Aren’t these words – superior and subordinate – undermining equality; laced with assumption that manager is inherently better than the employee.Does being higher up in hierarchy necessarily make someone … Continue reading Kill the hierarchy – flip the script
Demystifying Culture
Couple of weeks back, I interviewed a candidate. He spoke about his experience on developing a learning culture. I asked him, “What is culture?”He said, “it’s the behaviours and decisions made leaders and employees”What more?“It’s the physical layout, structure, even the system.”OK, anything else? He thought and finally said, “belief that learning is important.”He made … Continue reading Demystifying Culture
Are you aware of your field
Have you observed top performers who excel in one organization, but struggle when transitioned to another team or organization? Or vice versa?This can be attributed to a concept called the Field Theory, first proposed by Kurt Lewin. Understanding and applying this theory is pivotal in the realm of Organizational Development.Let's delve into the experiences of … Continue reading Are you aware of your field
Neuroscience of Connection: How to become a super communicator?
Last week I ran a poll on communication and who we generally tend to connect more with. The poll results were interesting: 50% felt that they would connect more with someone who takes charge to align thoughts / ideas 50% felt that they would connect more with someone who asks questions At the foundation of … Continue reading Neuroscience of Connection: How to become a super communicator?
Who is the puppeteer?
Who is the puppeteer? Ever wondered why we pour our hearts and souls into personal projects while work projects sometimes feel like a chore? Here are three likely reasons: Personal projects are like our babies. We choose them because love them. It's all about that "I want to" rather than the "I have to." They … Continue reading Who is the puppeteer?
Toxic high performers are charming
Picture this: Sonia, your star performer, the one you've pegged for a senior role, seemingly has it all. She tackles the toughest tasks with aplomb, consistently exceeding expectations. You are surprised go see her 360-degree feedback: her team members and peers have a vastly different perspective. The feedback paints a troubling picture - Sonia is … Continue reading Toxic high performers are charming
A moment lost is gone forever
Today is my father’s 25 death anniversary.He passed away alone with no one holding his hand as he made his final journey; despite living with his whole family in a 700 sq ft 2-BHK flat, despite we being fully aware that his soul is ready to leave the cancer devoured body any moment!He even called … Continue reading A moment lost is gone forever
Hit Reset
Sometime back, I went through a rough patch at work. It was a difficult situation; it evoked a medley of emotions: anger, frustration, disappointment…. Such encounters are common for most professionals, we all go through our share of ups and downs. By evening, I had taken charge of myself. I was feeling almost normal as … Continue reading Hit Reset
FRAM – designed for adaptability
I was going through my old pictures and came across the picture of Fram, a Norwegian exploration vessel, from the Fram museum in Oslo. It immediately reminded me of its story – the ingenuity with which the ship had built adaptability into its design.Prior to design of Fram in late 19th century, while there was … Continue reading FRAM – designed for adaptability