Have you just entered the corporate world?Or in the first few years of your career?The excitement is palpable: new experiences, new people, and a lot to learn.However, it can also feel overwhelming. How do you make the right impression? How do you build strong relationships with your manager, seniors, or even peers? How to share … Continue reading Just joined the corporate world?
The dragonfly moment
It was a warm, sun drenched winter afternoon. The garden outside was bursting with colour. I curled up near the bay window with a book in my hand.Soon, a buzzing sound broke my focus. A dragonfly was trapped inside the room. It was desperately trying to escape through the glass window. It flew toward the … Continue reading The dragonfly moment
Can we overcome this menace?
I was in Lonavla last weekend, a perfect monsoon escape — misty hills, rain showers dancing in and out. We sat at a cozy restaurant for lunch.Few tables away, a young couple were trying to pacify their restless 2-year-old. The child refused food and was crying. After sometime, I realized the child has gone quiet.He … Continue reading Can we overcome this menace?
Fear…
A couple of months ago, I asked my 80-year-old mother to join me for a short walk inside our condo complex. Just a few steps outside. She refused.She said, "What if I fall? What if it leads to complex health issues?"She stays indoors, not because she can’t step out, but because she fears what might … Continue reading Fear…
Inspiring leader
Ever worked with a boss who inspired you? They probably did these 5 things.Imagine you have created a proof of concept for a new solution.You present it to your leader, let’s call her Sonia. She listens to your presentation and finally says, “I appreciate your efforts in putting this together. However, I am not comfortable … Continue reading Inspiring leader
When everyone says YES
You share an idea in the meeting and people start nodding:“That’s a brilliant idea!”“Absolutely, let’s get started.”“This could really move the needle.”“Totally agree.”“Wow, love it!”It feels like a win! If you are the senior most person in the room, it's time to PAUSE.Ask yourself the reasons for YES. There are two possibilities here:1. Your idea … Continue reading When everyone says YES
Social media
Tara is a young woman whose husband has slipped into coma after a car accident. Played by Kalki Koechlin in Waiting, overwhelmed and alone, Tara says,“You know how many followers I have on Twitter? - 5800.How many are there with me here: zero"This statement underscores the digital world we live in today. We boast of … Continue reading Social media
Happiness
I was feeling lazy and restless last weekend. A friend had recommended couple of TV series. I spent the weekend binge watching.On Sunday evening, instead of feeling relaxed, I felt worse, totally washed out!Let’s rewind a bit, ask yourself: When was the last time I felt genuinely happy?Aristotle identified happiness as the ultimate goal of … Continue reading Happiness
I Logged Off LinkedIn for 3 Weeks—here’s what happened
I was on vacation, spending time with my family. Those two weeks were precious, time that we rarely get. I had a decision to make: stay active on LinkedIn: post, scroll, comment, stay “visible”—or fully unplug. I chose to PAUSE. And I extended it to shake off the jet lag, and felt like me again. … Continue reading I Logged Off LinkedIn for 3 Weeks—here’s what happened
The Manager’s Paradox
Some years back, my son — then a young boy — asked me a cheeky question. “I am your only child… so I can’t ask you who your favorite is. But you have worked with many team members over the years. Do you have a favorite?” I smiled and said, “Yes… I do have a … Continue reading The Manager’s Paradox
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