Fall like a baby

Guess how many times a toddler falls in an hour while learning to walk?

Studies indicate an average of 17 times per hour. Over time, this might add up to 1000’s of falls before the toddler’s walk becomes stable.

When a toddler falls, she gets up, takes a few more steps and falls again… Yet, she toddles and tumbles, her face is filled with joy.

The falls don’t bother her as she is improving with every fall. More importantly, she has places to go, things to reach out to and play. The possibilities are huge. So, the falls don’t hold her back.

Now contrast this with how we feel and behave when we fall or fail. We are engulfed with shame, disappointment, anger or frustration.

Imagine the possibilities if we could rekindle the toddler in us and learn to fall like her.

As we begin 2026, I invite you try these five fundamental shifts:

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Make it personal.Make it part of the flow. 
Replay it in your head.Allow it to pass.
Stop because it feels awkward or uncomfortable.Stay with it a little longer.
Expect smooth progress.Expect stumbles and continue anyway.
Wait to feel confident again.Trust that the path will evolve.

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